Perverted Photographers: Ladies Beware

Photography is one of the most beautiful ways to celebrate life, milestones, and self-expression. When you book a session, you’re not just hiring someone to take your picture—you’re inviting them to capture your personality, your confidence, and your story. Unfortunately, not all photographers treat this responsibility with the respect it deserves. Some individuals take advantage of their role, crossing boundaries and creating uncomfortable or even dangerous situations, particularly for women.

This blog is meant to shine light on the issue, empower women to protect themselves, and provide practical steps to ensure every photography session is safe, professional, and memorable for all the right reasons.

Why Safety Matters in Photography

Photography should always feel empowering. Whether it’s family photography, maternity photos, graduation portraits, or a creative shoot, the photographer’s role is to make you feel comfortable, respected, and valued. A session is about you—your joy, your milestones, your legacy—not about fulfilling anyone else’s inappropriate motives.

Sadly, some “photographers” use the title as a mask for unprofessional or predatory behavior. Stories surface too often about women being pressured into suggestive poses, receiving inappropriate comments, or being asked to meet in unsafe, secluded locations. These actions not only taint the experience but can leave lasting emotional scars.

This is why awareness is crucial. By knowing what to look out for, women can protect themselves and demand the professionalism they deserve.

Red Flags to Watch Out For

1. Unprofessional Communication

From the very first message, you should feel respected. If a photographer’s emails, texts, or DMs feel overly personal, flirty, or pushy, that’s a warning sign. Professional communication should always be clear, respectful, and centered on your photography needs.

2. Pushing Boundaries

A photographer who pressures you to pose in ways you’re uncomfortable with—whether it’s clothing, positions, or intimacy—does not have your best interest in mind. A true professional prioritizes your comfort above all else.

3. No Clear Business Presence

Legitimate photographers have a digital footprint: a website, portfolio, reviews, social media presence, and often a registered business name. If someone can’t provide these, you may be dealing with an individual whose intentions are not aligned with professionalism.

4. Private or Isolated Locations Without Discussion

While private spaces can sometimes be necessary, a photographer should never demand secrecy or insist on a secluded location without explanation. You should always have a say in the location, and your comfort should be non-negotiable.

5. Too Much Focus on Looks Instead of Story

Photography should highlight your story, your milestones, your confidence—not objectify you. If a photographer constantly comments on your body rather than the artistic vision of the session, it’s a major red flag.

How to Protect Yourself

Do Your Research

Before booking, check reviews, look through their portfolio, and ask for references. A trustworthy photographer will gladly share their work and feedback from past clients.

Bring a Friend

It’s always okay to bring someone with you. A professional will welcome your guest and even encourage it. If a photographer refuses, that’s a sign to walk away.

Set Clear Expectations

Before the session, discuss what kind of poses, wardrobe, and overall feel you want. Put everything in writing if possible, especially if the shoot involves travel or creative themes.

Ask Questions Upfront

• Do they have a contract?

• Do they have liability insurance?

• Where will the session take place?

• How will your images be used?

Trust Your Gut

If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. You should never feel pressured to continue with a photographer who makes you uneasy.

Real-Life Examples to Learn From

• The Overly Pushy “Portfolio Builder”: Many women have shared stories of photographers offering “free sessions” but later pressuring them into revealing or intimate poses. Always be cautious when someone offers something “free” without a clear professional reason.

• The Isolated Location Trick: Some individuals try to lure women into remote areas under the guise of “better lighting” or “creative backdrops.” If you don’t feel comfortable with the location, suggest a public place or bring someone along.

• The Social Media Predator: Beware of individuals who reach out through social media DMs without a professional page or website. Their intention may not be about photography at all.

Why This Matters

Your photographs are more than just images. They are a reflection of your personality, milestones, and legacy. No woman should have to trade her safety or dignity for beautiful images. Protecting yourself ensures your photography session is an empowering experience that celebrates you for who you are.

Building Trust in Photography

At Rickie Recardo Photography, professionalism and respect are the foundation of every session. We believe that every client is part of our extended family, and family means safety, trust, and care. Whether it’s family portraits, maternity photography, senior pictures, or engagement sessions, our priority is making sure you feel comfortable, celebrated, and respected.

When you choose us, you’re not just booking a session—you’re investing in peace of mind, in trust, and in images that capture Memorable Moments Never Forgotten.

Final Encouragement

Ladies, photography should never make you feel small, unsafe, or objectified. The camera should be a tool of empowerment, not exploitation. By doing your research, setting boundaries, and trusting your instincts, you can ensure that your next photo session is everything it should be: safe, joyful, and unforgettable.

Remember—you are in control of your story. Choose a photographer who honors that story with the professionalism, dignity, and care you deserve.